The Right One...The Wrong Time Or No Time

1:07 PM

I really did struggle to find a title...ignore it, it doesn't make sense or maybe...

I really get tired of talking about my decision to NOT date right now. Most people that ask about it don't know much about my personal dating life, which I've pretty much kept to myself over the years. I've allowed some people into that part of my life, but very few. Anyway, the reason I'm not dating right now and the reason I don't plan to date until the beginning of next year is simple: The relationship would be doomed from the start.

There is no way I could completely trust any man that came into my life right now. It's not their fault, it's something personal that's going on inside of me. A lot of women jump from relationship to relationship thinking that since that relationship didn't work why not try it with someone else and try to fix what was wrong with that one. The problem is: those issues existed with that person, it will have nothing to do with this new relationship.

I've always had this plan, it was/is: I will not date until I am where I want to be in life. I dated around in high school(few people know this)and I don't feel like I need to date anyone or be with someone to feel whole. If you feel this way you might need to reevaluate your life. You really do need to be alone in order to be with someone. You have to love yourself enough to know how to put YOU first and whoever you're with second or right beside you. I can't do that right now, I love myself and I come first but I don't have the time and energy it takes to have a successful relationship.I believe that if I were to just jump into a relationship just to say that I'm in one I might just meet "the one" and lose him all in the same day, month, year or whatever. Just because a relationship doesn't work out doesn't mean that that person wasn't right for you it could however mean that you chose the wrong time to jump into anything serious.

So yeah, that's pretty much why I'm not dating at the moment. Not everyone is going to agree with me, and maybe no one will agree with me but I didn't write this for agreement, I wrote this because it's the truth.

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